
Jersey City is the last place you would expect to meet Iris Apfel. ![]()
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In 2004, I encountered Iris while attending an opening for a friend’s art studio… in Jersey City of all places.
I had no idea who she was.
An 82 year old at a party for 20 and 30 year olds is hard to miss, not to mention that she was dressed head to toe in authentic African dress, jewelry and a Zulu hat.
I thought she must be Afrikaner.
No, this was Iris just being Iris.
Even before her show at the Costume Institute, she was a walking textile exhibit straight from a moment in history. ![]()
During the party, Iris would dance
right along with everyone else. Her hat made her look like a whirling dervish and I was a little nervous she might fall.
When the music would stop, she would grab onto one of us and get her balance.
Iris was tiny and a bit fragile even then, but her eccentric personality, curiosity and energy helped her fit right in. ![]()
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Unfortunately, that was my only encounter with her. However, that memory would return to me many times over the years as she became internationally known for her many talents as a curator, collector, archivist, designer, and feminist. In a culture obsessed with youth, Iris defied all odds and became a world class celebrity in her senior years.
She called herself a “Geriatric Starlet”. ![]()
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Rest in peace Iris.
102 years is an amazing run!
